tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8487775382188777638.post3840430477211226492..comments2023-12-08T05:15:41.511-08:00Comments on two plus one equals three: rooting for the wrong sideSissyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05831098254614285216noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8487775382188777638.post-62861010017568433062010-11-03T21:02:32.037-07:002010-11-03T21:02:32.037-07:00There actually are SOME get out of marriage free c...There actually are SOME get out of marriage free cards available...I guess the approach I would take is this. If your husband has sex with a prostitute, on more than one occasion, and doesn't really see a problem with it, what did he really mean when he made his vows in the first place? Probably not what the vows actually say. (And if you're Catholic, if you can demonstrate that he never seriously intended to be faithful only to his bride, then you have legitimate grounds for annulment. With this sort of character, that seems likely to be the case.) <br /><br />I've never confronted infidelity in my own marriage, and I know there are people who are able to put their marriages back together. Obviously my marriage will have serious challenges of its own; they all do. (Realistically, I know mine already has.) But I think that trusting someone again would border on impossible. Maybe it's harder for me than it would be for other people, but in some ways, adultery is the archetypal sin (splashed all over the Old Testament as the metaphor for Israel's betrayal of God), the one that everyone understands instinctively. Rooting for the wife to leave her husband seems like more a natural and proper reaction to her husband's evil behavior than an unnatural and improper impulse to see the wife behave badly. At least, so I see it.the misfithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05206278843624907697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8487775382188777638.post-50845325932799128652010-11-03T19:16:38.982-07:002010-11-03T19:16:38.982-07:00If I were Alicia, I'd dump her husband. Even ...If I were Alicia, I'd dump her husband. Even though he is Mr. Big! To me, there are certain deal breakers and cheating with prostitutes (especially) is one of them. If that were to happen to me, I'm not sure I'd want to work it out. I know marriage should be forever, but that would be one heck of a hurdle to work through.<br /><br />I get what you mean, though. TV does a great job of romancing all sorts of situations. I do find myself rooting for those types of things when in real life, I wouldn't. Even so, I'd dump Mr. Big.Alisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13525780741420745603noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8487775382188777638.post-61072757675940437992010-11-03T17:41:26.591-07:002010-11-03T17:41:26.591-07:00Honestly? Cheating is the one thing I can't st...Honestly? Cheating is the one thing I can't stand to watch on tv. I am not a prude. I know cheating happens. I guess, I just wish it didn't. I hate what situations like this have done to my friends. 3 of my closest friends are getting divorced due to their partner cheating. I hate to see their lost dreams and hopes because of infidelity.Frizzyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15150850904947257133noreply@blogger.com